Edging For Hours and Ending Premature Ejaculation

Have you ever wondered how some guys can masturbate, have sex or “edge” for hours at a time? “Edging” is when you are having sex or masturbating and you stimulate yourself almost to the point of orgasm and hold it there as long as you can. Keeping it right on “the edge” while the head of your cock is swollen to the max and becoming super-sensitive. “Edgers” want to see how much pleasure is possible without ending it through orgasm. They love the pleasure and want to extend it as long as possible. They like to drive themselves crazy with horniness. Hint: the secret behind endless edging is also the solution to premature ejaculation.

So, why do many guys have premature ejaculation anyhow? And how can some guys have sex or masturbate for 3 hours at a time??? Well, here’s the answer and the secret to being able to be a sexual marathoner….

When you get aroused, your prostate gland swells with prostate fluid, also known as “pre-cum”. Pre-cum is the clear, almost tasteless/odorless slippery fluid that lubricates the tubes that ejaculate sperm. As you are stimulated the prostate just does its job and makes more and more pre-cum. And as it swells with pre-cum, the internal pressure on the prostate makes it easier to “slip over the edge” and accidently have an orgasm before you intend to. It’s the pressure built up inside the prostate that causes you to slip over the edge and prematurely ejaculate. So, the key is to recognize this and to “milk” or "help the precum out' thereby reducing the pressure. When you milk it, you immediately notice a reduction of the pressure in the prostate and you gain more control over when you cum.

The answer is to use a hands-free prostate massager. It will do the work for you. These devices apply pressure to the prostate gland, stimulate it to produce more precum and help the precum get expelled. This is how you can be stimulated for hours and not cum prematurely. The pressure a massager applies inhibits the ability to cum and gives you more control. It will do the milking for you.

But you can also accelerate the process of milking by doing the following:

Milking is best done by masturbating with a prostate massager. You can also use a small dildo (5” thin is best) but a hands-free prostate massager is easiest for beginners. Start masturbating and insert the prostate massager after 5 or 10 minutes. You’ll notice that it feels really good as it goes in. Then when the tip of the massager presses against the prostate it feels fabulous. It can trigger a release of pre-cum and if it does just let it out. Notice how great it feels to let it out. If it doesn’t happen when you first insert it, keep masturbating and after 3 or 5 minutes sit up so the prostate massager gets shoved in a little. Notice if pre-cum gets expelled. You’ll probably see ½ teaspoonful come out. This will relieve the pressure you may have felt. Keep masturbating faster and faster and after another 3-5 minutes try clenching your PC muscle and see if more pre-cum gets expelled. The PC muscle is the same one that you use to stop the flow of urine and some guys say it feels like clenching your anus. Notice how good it feels to contract the PC muscle while the prostate massager is inserted. Just keep doing this and try to get pre-cum out. This is milking the prostate and every time the pressure is relieved it feels good and allows you to keep edging. Sometimes, when you are really turned on, have your partner squeeze your nipples hard and unexpectedly. My girlfriend did this to me this morning and a lareg amount of precum squirted out...and it felt soooo good.

Check out my video on prostate milking (that is a link to the right). The more you learn how to do it, the more you like it. And with practice you’ll be able to have sex or masturbate for 3 hours with no problem.